September 2010

September 29

by Elizabeth on September 29, 2010 · 4 comments

in Life, Melbourne

Tim and I celebrate two important dates every year.

15 April
our first date in 2006 (which lasted 2 weeks!)…

… and 29 September:
the day that Tim arrived in Australia with two suitcases, a permanent resident visa and a smile!

It took 16 months to get that crucial piece of paper.  The forms sat on somebody’s desk for most of that time, just waiting to reach the top of the pile.  At any point his application might have been denied, maybe just because immigration quotas had been filled.  We had no way of knowing.

Then one day he got a letter inviting him to become a permanent resident of Australia.  He quit his job, sold all his stuff and bought a plane ticket to Melbourne.

One-way.

I took him in, naturally.  I couldn’t have him wandering the streets of a foreign country could I?

He can stay.

<3

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101 in 1001: It’s all over!

by Elizabeth on September 29, 2010 · 11 comments

in 101 in 1001

On January 1st 2008 I embarked on a challenge to complete 101 Things in 1001 Days.

Yesterday it all came to an end!

This project has been one of the most fulfilling projects I have ever undertaken. I am known to be a little evangelical on this topic if given the chance, but only because it has had such an incredible impact on my life. This project has helped me to put some shape to the things that matter most to me, and granted me several much needed butt-kickings along the way!

The end result has been 2.75 years of growth and experiences that I may not have otherwise gotten around to tackling. I was able to complete 94 goals from my original list of 101 (with a few modifications along the way), and a few “works in progress” that just missed the deadline.

Here’s the breakdown:

The 5 tasks that I couldn’t complete in time:
002Weight loss goal #2
017Set a savings target, meet it, and maintain it for 6 months.
027Learn the names of every country, and identify them on a map
057Finish the last “Harry Potter” book
101Plan and execute an online crafty collaboration, swap or competition

Despite not finishing these 5 tasks, I consider each of them an achievement because of the time already invested in them during my 1001 days. I have made a good dent in all five incomplete goals, so I feel like I am well on my way!

And of course, the end of my 101 in 1001 project is no reason to just stop working on them. I guess it was just a race against the clock in the last few weeks, and these were the ones that I had to let go.

The 2 tasks I never started
003Weight loss goal #3
099Participate in mailart.org

My third weight loss goal couldn’t be started until I successfully finished my second, and I didn’t quite make it!

The mailart.org task became impossible when the website disappeared at some point during the past couple of years. I had always intended to replace it with something similar but simply ran out of time.

I am beginning my post with the items that I didn’t complete so that I can finish with the good stuff! I expected to feel a bit disappointed in myself if I didn’t hit all 101 goals, but one of the things I learned about myself during the project is that I have had some serious issues with perfectionism in the past. There were times when I found myself not beginning a task because I was worried I wouldn’t do it in the best possible way, and that’s just dumb! I really had to learn some strategies to get me doing instead of just thinking about it, and over time I’ve really developed some perspective.

After all, the only person I have to answer to is myself!

You can see my full list over here, with all of the details of my itemized tasks.  Rather than recreating it here, I thought I might explain in real terms the ways in which those tasks have had an impact during the past couple of years.

I travelled.

I travelled to Tasmania, and indulged in some incredible seafood.
I went to Phillip Island, and made vegemite chocolate at Panny’s Chocolate Factory
I experienced the Great Ocean Road, and saw the Apostles
I saw snow on Lake Mountain, and made a very stylish snowman.
I visited 50 Melbourne suburbs
I walked to the city and back 8 times in one month
I have planned my travel to New York and New England in September 2011!

I improved myself.

I learned to run 5km comfortably
I learned 15 new vegetarian recipes
I learned to cook a recipe from 30 countries
I have improved my health and fitness by riding my bike more and joining a gym
I challenged myself to a fortnight without meat
I challenged myself to a month without chocolate (and survived!)
I have found full-time employment which challenges and fulfils me (preceded by another job that didn’t)
I taught myself to use Excel (and am now completing a Cert IV which expands what I have learned)
I read the dictionary from beginning to end
I have learned to spot 5 constellations in the sky
I kept a swear jar for 2 weeks (and raised enough cash to sustain a small village!)
I learned a lot about wine, and the different regions on the East coast and Clare Valley
I learned all the US state capitals
I learned to sign the alphabet
I made a Will

I improved my lifestyle.

I have learned to budget, and set up joint savings/spendings accounts with Tim
I have donated, sold and thrown away hundreds of material items
I organised my filing cabinet
I bought a new computer and scanner
I organised and backed up all my photos with a new hard drive, and streamlined my workflow
I organised all of my music, and fixed up all the tagging
I grew a herb garden
I bought a BBQ, a new microwave and some beautiful Global knives
I bought a spare bed and a new coffee table
I bought a car (ok, Tim helped!)
I had my guitar fixed
I expanded my photography equipment with new lenses
I have had my couches dry-cleaned
I had my pup’s teeth cleaned (yes, that improves my life too!)
I have walked my dog more regularly

I helped other people.

I have sponsored a child through World Vision for the past 2 years
I did an anonymous favour
I did an anonymous prank (it was harmless and positive!)
I donated blood, and renewed my Senior First Aid certificate
I have identified (and put into practice) 5 ways in which I can reduce my impact on the environment
I donated books
I secretly flew into Brisbane to surprise Mum for her birthday

I had new experiences.

I have taken a beautiful ride in a hot air balloon
I have been horseriding on the beach
I watched 25 of Tim’s favourite movies
I read 10 novels by Melbourne authors
I have visited 5 different Melbourne markets
I ate at 25 different local restaurants (actually, it was more like 40!)
I went to Werribee Zoo
I visited to Luna Park
I went to a ghost tour at Old Melbourne Gaol
I went for a cruise down the Yarra River
I have experienced my first AFL games (at Etihad Stadium, and the MCG)
I visited 10 Australian art galleries
I ate on the Restaurant Tram
I have, with a healthy amount of embarrassment, been on the Neighbours tour
I have seen a Gold Class movie for the first time
I saw an outdoor movie (at the Rooftop Cinema, then at the Moonlight Cinema)
I slept under the stars
I watched the sun rise from the beach
I have been part of a live TV audience
I have watched every episode of Lost (and loved every second)
I have blown a stack of cash on a serious haircut and colour (and decided that it was overrated)
I built myself a time capsule
I carved a pumpkin for Halloween

I created.

I built a portfolio of my photography
I rebuilt my recipe blog
I sold a little of my photography
I took 100 snapshots, and turned them into a little book
I photographed a day in my life
I made some jewellery
I recorded a song for guitar, piano & voice
I drew 5 hands & 10 people
I drew every day for a month
I drew everything I ate for one week
I completed a course in art journaling
I have sewn a sock monkey and a doll
I have bought (and used) a flower press
I have created a list of 100 things that make me happy!

My list was created at a time when I was new to Melbourne, looking for work, and figuring out what to do with myself at the end of a career path.  I remember wanting to turn my new city into “home” by discovering as much as possible about it, and to develop the sides of me that had been neglected while I pursued my career in music. 

I didn’t have much money in the bank when I wrote my list, and so there are no grand round-the-world trips.  I didn’t go overseas or write a novel.  Instead, my list was created to build upon the areas of my life that needed a little more structure, and a time limit!

The end result is a set of goals that is very “me”.  And since I am such a massive procrasinator I can confidently say that most of those goals would still be sitting in the one day basket if not for my deadline!

This simple idea has done so much to enrich my life, and some of my new experience have given me memories I will treasure forever.  Naturally, my next 101 list is already in the planning stages!

I have so many tips for people who want to embark on this project, and so I will be writing a bit of a guide later which outlines the strategies that worked for me. Most of it comes back to the writing of the list itself, as this entire project is pointless if your list isn’t completely authentic and specific.

For the time being, however, I am going to bask in my goal-lessness of “Day 1002″! It is already off to a cracking start, with the delivery of this beautiful orchid to work yesterday:

How good is that? I had no idea I had managed to program the date into somebody else’s head!

It goes without saying that I have had tremendous support throughout this project, but I’ll say it anyway! Massive thankyous go to:

Tim, who arranged our beautiful hot air balloon ride on my 30th birthday, brainstormed with me for “100 snapshots”, watched 25 movies with me, donated blood with me, helped us to afford a new car and computer, carried our new coffee table home on the tram and performed countless other acts of kindness to put me in the path of my goals over the past 2.75 years

Sally, who helped me tick off a stack of items in two separate trips to Melbourne (Ghost tour, Neighbours tour, Yarra cruise, trip to the Apostles, some international recipes… and she bought me a Will Kit!)

April, Tim, Sally & Janelle who contributed a letter to “future me” for my time capsule

Foodie friends who helped me to find recipes for my ’15 vegetarian recipes’ and ’30 recipes from 30 countries’ goals (or helped me eat the finished product!)

Olivia & Laura for answering my call and buying some of my photography from my RedBubble store

YOU GUYS, for listening to my little achievements whenever I reported in, and giving me encouragement to keep going!

Whew! What a ride. And what a post! Give yourself a pat on the back (and an extra glass of vino) if you managed to read this far!

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NOT COOL, Bieber.

by Elizabeth on September 24, 2010 · 5 comments

in Celebrities

Urge to kill… rising…

Found at BuzzFeed

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Snow on Mt Wellington

by Elizabeth on September 17, 2010 · 2 comments

in 101 in 1001, Australia

Photo by Craig Matthews for The Mercury

This time tomorrow we will be wandering around the markets at Salamanca Place, and – if the photo above is anything to go by – freezing our BUTTS off! Tasmania obviously didn’t get the memo about Winter being over already. I will spread the word when we fly in tomorrow.

So there won’t be much action here until late next week when we return from our trip. Visiting Tasmania is another item on my 101 Things in 1001 Days list, and fortunately the Universe arranged for me to be there without any real effort on my part!

This is my first trip to Tasmania and we have a lot of ground to cover while we’re there. We’re going to spend a day in Port Arthur, see parts of Hobart and Richmond (including the markets) and tours of the Cascade Brewery and Cadbury Chocolate Factory. This will be my second chocolate factory tour in 8 days but no I *twitch* don’t have a *twitch* problem OKAY?!

We also have a long list of restaurants to try, so we’re in for a great few days away. Mostly, I’m excited about having a change of scenery and seeing a bit more of this brilliant country of mine.

(We’re very grateful to our friends J & G who will be puppysitting for us while we’re away. They seemed to think that our original plan to leave Harry with the TV remote and the number for Pizza Hut was somehow inadequate, so hooray for good friends!)

I’ll be back next week with 60,000 photos…

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Good advice

by Elizabeth on September 15, 2010 · 2 comments

in Art

This deserves a post all of its own! Thanks to Celia for finding this gem – does anyone know the source?

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Sunday photos

by Elizabeth on September 13, 2010 · 0 comments

in Photo Posts

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#33 – Visit Phillip Island

by Elizabeth on September 13, 2010 · 4 comments

in 101 in 1001, Melbourne

Part of my 101 Things in 1001 Days project

Yesterday Tim and I jumped in our little car and drove to Phillip Island, which is a couple of hours South of Melbourne.

Our hearts sank a little when we began seeing signs for a V8 Supercar event on the island (which is also home to a Grand Prix track) but somehow managed to avoid the crowds completely.

Instead, we found Panny’s Chocolate Factory! Naturally, there was a chocolate fountain (but sadly no oompa-loompas).

We did a tour of the factory, which is set up with a bunch of cool little interactive displays (and lots of free chocolate!). My favourite part was the “Amazing Chocolate Machine” which lets you choose some flavour combinations and then spits out your selection at the other end. I attempted to video my selection and did a terrible job, but fortunately somebody else on YouTube did a better job than I!

In case you were wondering, the first square of Vegemite chocolate was pretty good. Weird, but good. But all of a sudden the chocolate to Vegemite ratio became overwhelming and I decided that Tim should take over.

He made a weird strawberry/wasabi combo that was just as bad, but I’m glad we tried it!

A chocolate Statue of David…

… a chocolate mural of Dame Edna Everage

… and a model railway city made entirely of chocolate!

Finally, we found a machine that lets you design your own chocolate work of art (and then eat it!). Tim made me a Helvetica capital “E”.

I promise that we also did plenty of non-chocolate related stuff in Phillip Island, but this sugar haze is making it difficult to remember the details…

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Saturday

by Elizabeth on September 12, 2010 · 1 comment

in 101 in 1001, Life

Tim and I had a deliciously lazy start to the day today. We woke up around 9.30am, but snuggled up for an extra hour and a half to snooze and chat. It was pretty perfect.

Today was a beautiful Spring day. There was plenty of sunshine, but the breeze still had a little bit of chill. I spent some time weeding my garden and repotting a few plants.

I know this little fella is a weed, but it was too pretty to get rid of. I found him a little pot and a sunny place to hang out.

Later, while Tim was out buying us new sheets for our bed, I spent some time in the kitchen cooking. I’ve finally finished my “30 recipes from 30 countries” task from my 101 Things in 1001 Days list, finishing with this delicious Finnish sour cream cake.

I promise to post the recipe tomorrow – it’s sensational!

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Pretty things.

by Elizabeth on September 10, 2010 · 1 comment

in Art, Online Shopping


Beautiful earrings by Etsy artist potpourri4


Sweet little hearts by a favourite of mine, Australian designer Epheriell


Pretty hand-hammered stackable rings by Emily Wiser

Friday!

Oh, Friday. I want to kiss you RIGHT on the mouth.

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Universe Safety Guide

by Elizabeth on September 7, 2010 · 3 comments

in Funny Stuff

Thanks for the advice, Buttersafe!

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100 Snapshots

by Elizabeth on September 5, 2010 · 0 comments

in 101 in 1001, Photo Posts

My camera has been working hard this weekend, documenting my progress on my 101 Things list.

Shadow, Find, Tackle & Time – Four new pictures for 100 Snapshots

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23 sleeps!

by Elizabeth on September 5, 2010 · 1 comment

in 101 in 1001

I can’t believe that I am now counting down to the end of my 101 Things in 1001 Days in days instead of weeks! I’ve been hard at work on my little list, in an effort to cross off as many items as possible before 28 September.

I admit to secretly looking forward to sitting on my butt in October and recovering!

About 10 days ago I took a good look at my list and worked out what I can reasonably complete before time runs out. I decided that I’d make up a bit of a chart (since I work best when I’m crossing things off) and broke down each task into all the steps I’d need to finish it. It’s been great to watch my progress growing, even on items where I can’t say I’ve completed them yet.

My little chart is stuck on my bathroom mirror so that I can read it twice a day when I brush my teeth. It’s not a bad way to keep my mind on the job!

In the past week I’ve managed to cross off the following:

COMPLETED:
- Found some snow at Lake Mountain

- Photographed and blogged ‘A Day in My Life

- Drew 2 hands (5/5)

- Drew 3 people (10/10)

- Revamped my online recipe book

If only I had been completing tasks at the rate of 5 per week this whole time, I’d have been finished a very long time ago! It’s nice to see some of my works-in-progress finally crossed off.

And speaking of works in progress, here are some of the items that edged closer to the finish line this week:

IN PROGRESS:
- Walked my dog 3 times (3/12 in one month)

- Took another 10 photos for 100 Snapshots (only 9 to go!)

- Finished working on my book of 100 Snapshots. All that’s left to do is to drop in those last 9 photos and send it off to Blurb. Can’t wait to see it!

- Read 3 more letters in the dictionary (Now reading “Ph”)

- Cooked another 3 dishes for my 30 recipes from 30 countries list (25/30)
(England: Bread & butter pudding with brandy-soaked raisins, Iceland: Laufabrauð, Japan: Oyako Donburi)

So what’s left?

- Go for a 2-hour bike ride
- Visit Tasmania (we’re leaving in less than 2 weeks!)
- Visit Philip Island (we’d better do this next weekend)
- Visit 6 art galleries (planning to see a bunch in Tasmania)
- Take 9 more photos for 100 Snapshots
- Send my book to Blurb
- Fix my guitar
- Fit into my black skirt (nearly there!)
- Cook 5 more recipes from 5 different countries
- Finish reading the dictionary (easy!)
- Finish reading my last Melbourne novel (which is dragging, I might add)
- Keep walking the dog
- Watch 2 of Tim’s movies
- Learn 2 new constellations
- Do an anonymous favour
- Finish my time capsule
- Make a will

Piece of cake, right?! Don’t worry, I know that all this is slightly unachievable in the next 23 days (while holding down a job and travelling interstate for almost a week) but there are so many things on this list that are totally doable and should push me well into the 80′s. Right now I’m sitting on 75 completed tasks and if I stopped right here I’d be pretty happy with my achievement.

… but I won’t! Wish me luck.

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Danny & Annie

by Elizabeth on September 4, 2010 · 0 comments

in Cool stuff, Life, Videos

Danny Perasa and his wife, Annie, came to StoryCorps to recount their twenty-seven-year romance. As they remember their life together from their first date to Danny’s final days with terminal cancer, these remarkable Brooklynites personify the eloquence, grace, and poetry that can be found in the voices of everyday people when we take the time to listen.

You really have to watch this, preferably with somebody’s hand in yours.

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Balance

by Elizabeth on September 3, 2010 · 2 comments

in Art, Cool stuff, Family, Friends, Life

This canvas was created by Stephanie of Geezees, for the very awesome Megan Duerksen (who also took the photo above).

There is a post that has been sitting in the back of my mind, half-written, for a large part of this year. I’m not sure why I haven’t been able to put it into words for anyone else to read yet, but when I came across the little verse above something just clicked and said, “here you go! I did it for you!”

Those words up there describe pretty closely the change in attitude that I’ve noticed in myself this year. It definitely wasn’t a conscious decision to start being more positive; in fact, I’ve always considered myself to be a pretty positive person. At the same time I’m really sensitive, and I’m a thinker, so I’ve always tended to consider the pros and cons of any situation.

And perhaps I’ve gone looking for the what could go wrong? of situations more often than I needed to.

Out of nowhere, my brain has begun to reject pointless negativity that I hear from people around me. It’s not even conscious – I’ve just stopped letting it settle into my thoughts. I’m not looking for fault in people or situations quite as often, but nor am I ignoring fault where it exists. Meaningless criticism of people or ideas exhausts me now so my mind has developed a filter that stops them at the gate.

Clever little brain!

It seems to me that a lot of energy gets wasted on negativity when it’s not constructive. I’m not trying to be Pollyanna and pretend that life is perfect, but I do think that I’ve had a healthy adjustment of perspective. I have freedom, I have a terrific family, quality friendships and a special person to share my life with. I have enough to eat and enough money for the necessities (and extra for shoes!) and a job that makes me laugh and cry. There is also plenty of room for growth, and that’s exciting too.

I know that it’s still important to look critically at the world around us, and to a degree we need to concentrate on the negatives to provide impetus for change. That’s constructive and healthy and I know I’ll be doing it for the rest of my life. I guess I’m just learning to realise that the good things in life deserve the same amount of real estate in my thoughts.

All I know for sure is that by focusing on what is good what works and what is within my power, the negative aspects just don’t seem to matter quite as much. They’re still there, but they don’t feel as overwhelming as they might have otherwise been.

What I’m learning is not blind optimism, it’s balance. Perspective. And those words up there helped me to put some shape to the changes I’ve been noticing in myself.

Happy Friday, everyone <3

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2011 Diary from frankie magazine

by Elizabeth on September 3, 2010 · 5 comments

in Cool stuff

I’m not a magazine person, but I make an exception every 2 months each time there’s a new issue of frankie. I love the photography and the crafty/artist reviews, and they always seem to write about stuff I care about.

That’s how I know that I’m going to love their latest offering, the 2011 frankie diary! Pre-orders are being accepted now, and will be available in stores at the end of this month.

So much prettier than my boring old Collins Vanessa planner!

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